I also totally agree with you that we should treat each other with grace. Thats how this mom of autistic feels and dont judge cuz we each have a path thats different from each others. I know I did. Dont shame her story. Your child is crying for help and you choose to demonize them. Occasionally posts contains other affiliate links as well. And even if they wont, you honestly think that because they possibly dont understand what youve said that it makes it okay for you to say? The stim may be very important to them. So, all you parents who are reading this one: SPEAK UP ALWAYS!!! I can promise you that feeling that off you or anyone else-he is soaking it up and not being able to regulate his emotions it comes out in pretty horrible ways. The inability to communicate, meltdowns, need for structure can look exactly the same even though a person may be able to fake NT from time to time. Do you have any experience with severe autism? Otherwise shut your trap about things you have no experience, or no clue about. Children at the ages of 15 20 25 still in strollers because they cant handle walking in a store or anywhere or they meltdown or elope. I do not have a disease, and to act like autism is a death sentence and a tragedy is about as narcissistic as a parent can be! How they hope and pray for a cure? You are always on without many of the so-called rewards of parenting. But if a wider audience begins to see the lack of services provided for families like ours, maybe we wont be forgotten. Absolutely not. He still loves Elmo. Keep in mind that even an extremely unresponsive child can probably still hear you; they just don't have a way to communicate yet. Im a teacher and mother of a severe ASD child and even as a teacher, I had NEVER seen the severe side until my son, now 5, regressed. Look, having kids makes life harder as much as it makes life fulfilling. I post all the time about my sons destructive and aggressive tendencies. People need to know what a horrible nightmare it isand how it wrecks lives and marriages. My parents are far from perfection, but if they made something like this to me I would publicly shame them back and/or kill myself. I have not had a minute to myself for a very long time. The mother had genuine feelings she was sharing- she wasnt overacting, she has every right to feel frustrated and vent I love my son but I am not going to lie and pretend that any of this is pleasant. The things that effect your stepchild now will still effect them 20 years from now. Make it clear that you care about what's bothering them, even if you don't know what it is. This attitude can help you focus on helping, instead of punishing. Lets see how happy you remain when your kid kills your pets, destroys everything you love or hold dear, smears feces on everything in the home including your face, ruins all interaction around you with his tantrums and physically attacks you or anyone for no reason. Autism at the very least requires significantly more support than it currently receives. This is is why half of all teacher quit within 5 years. Its very hard for people who have no issues. ALL PEOPLE COMPLAIN. For the love. My daughter knows she has some hurdles to overcome due to her autism but not coddle them cuz life wont coddle them and how are you preparing them for when your gone. I know what Ive talking about with the mortality rate. He struggles with communication, which leads to most of his meltdowns, but they are rare now, and with his improvements, my health has improved in some ways, too. This was so clearly written by the parent of a high functioning autistic child. And mean. If somehow you are not suffering fears and worries about your child (the one with autism) in the future COMPARED to typical children, then you are both zen and lucky indeed. You can afford therapy?! Watching your child uncomfortable in their own skin. There is nothimg wrong with that mom sharing her story. Autism news, information and support. Shes an outstanding mother and is quite blunt about a side of autism not everyone knows. And you know what? Im not a fan of this article, I find it patronising to say the least. If you have the backing of a professional, quote the professional. This article has been viewed 68,833 times. Your child may point out certain ingredients as "gross" or "scary." I saw that video too and my first thought was why is she taking him to this bloody Elmo thing anyway.He so obviously didnt want to be there. Too many people who lack the empathy, understanding and patience for what seems like even neurotypical kids, let alone autistic kids. Always ask a doctor before placing your child on a new diet. GOOD FOR YOU!! Fecal matter on walls and furniture, sometimes multiple times a day. Thats why shes asking for privacy, because while I hope to god that your son outlives you, statistics say that someone elses Autistic child wont. "More than half of children with autism have moderate to severe sleep disturbances," according to the ATN specialists. Wow way to shove it down someones throat. People NEED people. Every single last internal concurring issue that isnt my Autism nor ADHD has been overlooked, therefore slowly, but surely, Im moving over to the societal low functioning scale. feeling out of control . Critizing disgraceful, toxic content is not censorship. It is okay to casually let your child know that a stim looks odd. I havent seen this particular video (dont plan to, either), but I see a lot of this stuff on Facebook, etc. You may need to repeat yourself or write things down. I know I am not easy, I know I am difficult. Would you care if he wet the bed and poops in his bathwater, cant talk and doesnt understand what you are trying to express, runs out in traffic, doesnt understand that certain things can hurt him or others, pushes children off jungle gyms? You probably didnt even read the article. Special interests can help build confidence and expertise. You are the reason we are bullied, treated poorly, dismissed, unable to get appropriate services, unable to get employment, abused, and even shot by police. Period. While academically bright, no one could understand how someone could be so socially blind. You are not the autistic person mothers grieve for anyway. While I agree that someone publicly shaming their disabled (or even typical) child is a disgraceful thing, what you are describing sounds more like the mom had a mental breakdown. So what do you do if you cant go vent to the whole internet world? All yall do is talk over them and dont listen to their struggles. Surely you jest. It wasnt that long ago that saying ANYTHING negative about parenting was taboo. If you agree with this and you want a safe space online where you can learn and grow as an autism advocate, click here to tell me a bit about your situation and join the Embracing Autism Facebook Group! Do not take this personally, but do stop insulting hard working parents. The second thing. When a parent has a sometimes NT-ish child, they still cant find a carer capable of managing the needs of their autistic child because meltdowns happen and sensory and structural needs are still there. She should clarify that this does NOT apply to level 3 autism, the most severe, as the DSM does. Im apart of many autism parents FB groups and Im getting tired of all the parents playing victim to autism and crying on their public pages about how their children are a burden. There are appropriate forums and the sobbing mom should have used one of them. dont compare. I hurt for you. There is no epidemic of autism. Its not wrong for an autistic child but okay for a neurotypical child. This lack of responsiveness is one reason for the difficulties that some autistic people face in securing and keeping employment, and making friends. Its hard sometimes but there are also sweet otherworldly moments too both my sons have taught me more than a lifetime of experiences before them ever could. Not just another way of being but something terrible happened to him that hurt his health and his ability to learn. Now, as promised, there are ways to vent without causing harm to your child and other autistic people. Ripping fabric is an interesting sensation, so is squeezing out toothpaste or shampoo. I learned more about her. Shame on you for telling people how to feel and how to express their feelings. I think doing this by responding to a support thread is great. Several parents messaged me and said they were glad to know others were struggling. But that doesnt equal liking him and you know that deep down. You should have SOME idea of what autism is and what its not, but it seems like youre making up your own symptoms because thats how YOUR child is. There are plenty of schools now educational programs for your artistic kids, most of the kids at artistic today you cant even tell because theyre in such great programs. I think this grace should extend to the autistic child. Ran across this post really desperate and I see both sides. Please apologize to this mama (and all the other ones out there) for telling her not to speak her voice. But his cousins probably will. People with autism have a number of legal rights and protections. There are tons of autistic groups where non-autistic parents are not allowed and the the kids will finally feel accepted. Having to hold a child down to ever treat medical issues because they have no concept of why you need to do things (like clean wounds). I think there is a point to this article, that a person can share too much, however, her idea that neurotypical parents do not share their struggles is absolutely ludicrousI see posts every day. He screams most of the time hes awake. They may even turn into a great career someday. If shes not for you dont follow her, dont watch her videos but making a blog to shame her cause you dont prefer her style, ew just ew. This is the most selfish article Ive ever read. Im already a member of the FB group and I really value you. Level 3 individuals are not supported by the society in any way shape or form and neither are their parents. Some of the best sources of calcium include milk, cheese, yogurt, spinach, kale, okra, collards, soybeans, white beans, and calcium-fortified juices and cereals. Point is why are they never mentioned? Suggestions to keep this inside is ridiculous, harmful, unhealthy, crap advice. If your child doesnt have an intellectual disability, they can understand EVERYTHING you say! Does it mean we love our children any less?! I dont agree. This is the most ass backwards post Ive ever read. Imagine for a moment that you always wanted a child tobecome a doctor. But dont complain about how its so terrible to raise an autistic child. 2. I will continue to support him in his journey and do what Moms are suppose to do, put my child and HIS FEELINGS first. You have nerve picking on a person for having an overwhelming day and sharing her feelings. What youre saying is: please dont include retard people in my exclusive spectrum what the F are you? To be honest? But ALSO for my son, because HE CAN NOT. There isnt any manual to child raising. We all want our children to be loved, to grow and succeed. Its the broadcasting of something private to her and her son. You very likely need MORE support than I do, and thats valid! Also, explain why people who have cerebral palsy and intellectual disability easily get caregivers and support while people with intellectual disability and severe autism are discriminated for everything? far more than a typical child. Do I love my kid? Fuck you first of all for telling anyone to hold it in and not to speak. we all have to try to make our childrens lived less stressful. Sorry Im not autistic enough to deserve empathy, folks. (My sons therapy just from age 2 to 6 was not reimbursed by insurance and cost us the equivalent of a house or a college education at Harvard!). People vent about their parents, their spouses, their siblings but no-one judges them harshly for it. Your autism is NOTHING like my sons. THE MOST BASIC THINGS IN LIFE. I have had many F U, autism! moments, but I know hes even more frustrated than I am. I dont criticize that woman for trying to take her child to see something she thought he might like. You and the author should live a day in the life of a SEVERE ASD child you wouldnt know what to do. He desperately wants to learn new things he struggles every day to do music to read big books to do homework but his academic progress stalled long ago. You might be able to substitute sensory toys for some of the more valuable items, move all the scissors safely out of reach, and try some therapy to help your child learn the skill of pausing and foreseeing consequences before acting (warning, this may take a long time to be successful for anyone). Click bait-y title but agree with the overall point. And theres nothing shameful about venting it out vrs bottling it up to fester and rot inside you. Thank you Faith. Wow, Kaylene, such a great essay! I accept my son fully for his differences, but sharing our stories gives others a glimpse into our life, and can encourage policy makers to fund programs for the disabled. The first time I was hospitalized for suicide, I was eighteen years old. Her concerns are real. Censorship would be to try to take it down, removed from wherever it is. Clean your bum and vagina too (that's what we use to describe washing parts that aren't hair) clean the parts that are stinky. So stop blaming autism when autism itself isnt the issue. If you did, you wouldnt suggest going to lunch or Starbucks or therapy or on a date. "I Don't Like My Child, Help!" "I've had it with my 12-year-old daughter who has ADHD, sensory disorder, and learning disabilities (LD). A LACK of empathy. The content of this article is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, examination, diagnosis, or treatment. Not just for your own sanity but for the literal safety and heart& soul of your son. If youre frustrated with your child, talk about it with a friend, spouse, counselor, support group, etc. You think parents of NT kids dont publicly complain, post videos, etc? If someone needs support, then they should receive it any way they can. Sensitive to the way her clothes felt from a very early age, potty trained before 2 because she didn't like diapers, couldn't wear socks, underwear, tags on clothes, or jeans due to the way they felt. You know how those of us labeled high functioning are just the stereotypical geniuses therefore nothing could ever go wrong with us??? feeling angry, but not knowing why. Okay, but where else can these people vent? You can love your child and hate their autism. 1.1K views, 96 likes, 8 loves, 4 comments, 48 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Dr. Eric Berg DC 2022: How to Lose Arm Fat - Dr.Berg - Dr. Eric Berg DC Like and share the video to help me. This is the first step to know whether what youre about to share is over the line. Dont blast it all over a public media space. Your post is the most discriminatory and ableist thing Ive read in a while. Anime you wonder if what youre saying is appropriate, replace the word autistic with black or gay and see if it still sounds good. How to Handle an Autistic Child's Behavior Download Article methods 1 Handling a Lack of Responsiveness 2 Coping with Language and Communication Problems 3 Dealing with Meltdowns and Tantrums + Show 6 more. He also deals with Chiari Malformation and Red Ear Syndrome. She should acknowledge what has happened to THOUSANDS of once healthy children where they lost skills like the ability to attend to a book, to talk, make/keep eye contact, lost their ability to sleep through the night, to communicate and engage with the world with language and typical curiosity and imaginative play but instead they lose words and say, play by spinning the wheel on a truck over and over, they throw a book instead of looking at its pictures much less reading it, or rip it into small bits (Or, lets get real: they finger paint with their poop instead of wiping themselves and washing their hands because they understand about germs and are potty trained and allowed to go to preschools and play groups and day camps where potty independence is a requirement for reasons of sanitation so that the time there is spent on play as learning rather than diaper changing.). The basic human conversation skills and accumulated knowledge of science/history/algebra are all simply beyond his understanding. And several of their parents complained about them not getting enough individual help/support. I know exactly how you feel. If the mother had the nerve to publish that content, she should deal with the consequences! Please know that he must feel the disappointment and resentment radiating off of you- no matter how verbal he is. Search #ActuallyAutistic hashtags and find Kristy forbes on Instagram and follow her! Do you need to paint autism as rainbows and sunshine? Parents are suffering, after learning a whole new way of interacting for their child, and fight after fight to advocate to get their childs needs met. When you say that autism makes your life so difficult, youre telling the world that autistic people are more trouble than were worth. His reading comprehension is not even at a 1st grade level. The message isnt youre such a bad parent for having these thoughts and needing to say them, but rather a gentle reminder of the power a parent has over their child, and also when representing autism as a whole. Yes they will gain more control over their actions and better understand the world around them so that their behaviors seemingly improve. Im doing handstands trying to parent, and I am so fearful of being judged or shouted down when I meltdown. As a Autistic person who was labeled high functioning with Aspergers and ADHD, you people truthfully dont know jack anything about functioning labels. Its a living hell and all I can do is pray it gets better. Read her suggestions again. 1 Stay as calm as you can. Facing my fear: to save my autistic son's future, I had to let him go Elayne Robertson Demby It's always hard for parents when their children leave home. And I get it. If my own mother cried on camera because i was a burden, i would practically want to die. The highests I have had is 8 in a mainstream class of 29 students. Princeton University Press, 2008. He can go to the bathroom on his own and even though he didnt go to mes school he still has the possibility to think of what he wants his life to be. No ones perfect, this thread sure as heck isnt. have you ever met autistic children at the level 3 end of the spectrum? Im afraid Ill hit someone while being distracted by trying to dodge blows. Autism is not the issue. You may notice patterns of behavior such as those that involve a sensory processing disorder (SPD) or a lasting and intense focus on objects or topics along with a lack of: 1. babbling or use of words. I know it takes some of us a long time to connect with Actually Autistic community and by then you may have already gone down a path of trying to fix your child, and hating autism. It can be hard to shift your thinking but if you do you will see how quickly your life and the wellbeing of your child can change. I will give my life for him in a heart beat, this child regardless keeps me motivated and I love him beyond myself. Anyone who tries to say autism is anything other than a living hell is either lying to themselves or lying to everyone else to make Themselves or others feel better. By not telling the truth about what its like to live with a child with severe autism, its painting an inaccurate picture and quite frankly, its counter productive. No one is. I am a parent of a severely autistic adult and HE IS NOT AND NEVER HAS BEEN A BURDEN and I presume competence (as we all should for anyone with serious communication challenges), it would break his heart to hear me say something like that about him. Its the stupidest reason. Be careful about behavior modification therapies. When you say that autism ruined your marriage, youre telling people to fear autistic people. I had to quit working because there was no one willing to take care of him once he got older. With the current situation going to the hospital for any other reason is not the best option. That is your autism talking. If the people in those groups knew how you feel they wouldnt want, or feel comfortable, having you as a member. You are not the autistic person mothers grieve for anyway What an horrendous person you are, I bet youre an abusive parent. The comments here make me so sad. But my child needs to be accepted for what he can and cannot do, for how his brain is wired differently just like yours needs it. As an autistic person and a parent to an autistic child, Im begging you. I was so annoyed all the time! I grieve! It breaks my heart my son will never take an SOL, SAT, or go to college due to his autismit is a REAL DISABILITY. But not too worry. Austitic mama mantra seems to be Out of sight, out mind, I actually loved this post! Do you put on your own helmet before you start bashing your own head into the floor & put on your own gloves so you dont bite your hands bloody? Ive known people who have lovingly sexually molested their children, genuinely thinking that they were providing the kid with a positive sexual education. I guess you missed the part where she said all she wants is for her Son to be happy!! Then they reach their teens and you realise that a whole lot of other teens are utter dicks and actually your kids are going to do great because theyre not dicks it gets a whole lot easier. Autistic people may confuse I and you regularly, for example. I find it interesting that the first thing this article does is shame a mom for her blog. I truly do hope that you are going to therapy and again I am saying this with respect for a fellow woman and mother. I have two children with autism. I dont have the time to teach them based on their particular interests. it is indeed a big deal trying to raise and educate them. Signed, an autistic. Publicly trashing your autistic kid is fine, since they dont have feelings anyway. Some of you really need to do some research and defer to the autistic community because you are making autistic people look like monsters. Support ad love instead of judging and pointing fingers. Keep it in mind, ableist NT mommies. Coopers mother should keep her feelings to herself?? Or how we traumatize doctors and nurses because it takes 5 people to restrain her just so she can have a basic check up? And thats what youve got to understand. 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Bruises, cuts, and bites and scratches from meltdowns that cant be controlled (injuries on both yourself and the ASD child and sometimes siblings). Children with autism often need constant supervision to ensure they don't get hurt or run away. No local services. NO it would NOT be. You really seem to be of the mind that women should just shut up and put up with no help. She makes it SO MUCH HARDER for the world to accept my kids as they are. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont lay down to go to sleep at night and wish, really really wish, to wake up and realize it was just a bad dream I was having. It is an insult to momsplain that behavior is communication. I also want whats best for my autistic son. Would you publicly shame your child for not being who you thought theyd be? Now the next layer Would your spouse talk about you that way? My son is 25 now and much more able to do for himself than even a few years ago, but I know that moment of not being able to stand another second of a meltdown from him. Let them choose whether it's worth the effort to redirect it or not, and give them your full support either way. Im struggling. Autism can seriously suck. Let it be. And then your child was born, struggled through school, and they decided that they never wanted to go to college. I have not complained for 30 years. And how judgemental of YOU to not listen to the lady, if you had you would have heard how much she LOVED her child and was saddened that he would never have the things average kids will. Kid with a positive sexual education securing and keeping employment, and making friends think this grace extend. This personally, but do stop insulting hard i can 't handle my autistic child anymore parents a doctor before placing your child and autistic! 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